Learn how to harness the power of love

 There are two laws:-- 1-Make others come to you

2-Use absence to create honor and respect 

The idea is- If you're always going after the other person, if you're always the pursuer,Etc,, they start to take you for granted. You're the one who's always calling, and texting, you're in their face constantly thinking that's the way to make them love you, you're also giving them that impression that you'll always be there , they think you're so familiar, they take you for granted , they have you wrapped around your finger a little bit. And unconsciously they lose a bit of respect, they may not say it but it'll come out in their behavior. And overtime the spell of love will diminish .So you have to step back , you have to create a some distance, some absence to make them come to you, now the power is a little bit more on your side